How to use a Moment Card
Pick the behavior, age, and moment, then read the words out loud.
- From Home, choose the category that matches what is happening, then tap the behavior.
- Select the moment: Calm this down, Stop unsafe behavior, or Repair afterward.
- Check the wording age range. Tap Change if you need more concrete language for this moment. That change is only for this visit — it does not update your child's saved age.
- Read Say this out loud. Follow Do this now. If it keeps going, use the next step. On unsafe cards, follow Safety step first.
- Tap Give me a different phrase if the first wording does not fit. You will get another approved script for the same situation.